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How To Talk To “Anti-Gunners” — Debating Gun Control Advocates


The hardest part about gun control advocacy groups is that their followers tend to mindlessly regurgitate slogans and memes that defy logical debate.  Memes are great for that witty tongue-in-cheek retort but they’re absolutely worthless when it comes to accuracy or credibility.

Fighting Past The Dank Memes

Facebook and Twitter are great platforms for posting the dankest of memes.  Why are memes so prevalent?  It cuts time of having to actually articulate a viewpoint.

Anatomy of a Meme

A lot of memes center around taking one largely irrelevant argument and skewing it with another.  For educational purposes only, we’re throwing up a popular gun control meme so we can dissect it.


“Each year[,] 24 million Americans* suffer from Depression. / Are you sure you want concealed carry and stand your ground laws?”

*No sources cited.  Convenient, huh?

We checked with the Anxiety and Depression Association from America and they said roughly 14 million are afflicted by Major Depressive Disorder.

It looks like the meme author (no surprises here) probably doesn’t understand how depression works.  He or she likely didn’t take the time to do much research outside of finding a number and posting it up to support an irrelevant argument.

Now, if you’re going to debate somebody who came out with this argument, you’d have to logically dismantle the first part to begin to discuss the merits of the second.  The second argument is that concealed carry and Stand Your Ground laws are somehow tied to the criminal use of firearms.  That correlation has not been vindicated by research.  But, gun control advocates aren’t really fans of research.  They’re fans of knee-jerk reactionary BS that makes them feel good.

We previously discussed in another article that any massive sweeping changes to gun law — by way of either confiscation or prohibition — is not in the cards.  Why?  Because it’s costly.  And before anyone brings up, “well, they did it in Australia” — read our article.  We go into that.

The core point that the meme is trying to get at, in this example, is that the right to carry a concealed firearm and to stand your ground from a clear and present danger is somehow related to a broad spectrum of psychological disorders.

Stand Your Ground laws are pieces of state-specific legislature allowing a legally armed citizen to defend himself from a potential lethal force with no duty to retreat.  The wording changes depending on the state you live in and some states don’t have Stand Your Ground laws on the books.  In order to debate that point, your opponent first has to understand that.

Avoid The Lazy Gun Control Arguments

A lot of gun control arguments are made off the basis of pure laziness.  We’ve included a sample dialogue illustrating how annoying it can be trying to talk some common sense into somebody who resorts to “lazy anti-gun arguments”.

Lazy Anti-Gun Argument: “If you were a real man, you’d just [punch or physically assault a gunman].”

Counter: Fists don’t work as well as bullets.  Work smarter, not harder.


LAGA: “You must have a pretty small [sexual organ/s] if you need a gun to protect you.”

Counter: “Your obsession with my genitalia has nothing to do with my right to defend myself.”

LAGA: “Gun violence is an epidemic.  We should stop having guns.”

Counter: “Do you commit crimes with a gun?”

LAGA: “No.”

Counter: “Then how does removing your gun stop violent crime?”

LAGA: “…Because if nobody has guns then gun violence will stop.”

Counter: “Who’s going to collect up all the criminals’ guns?”

LAGA: “…(scratches head) The cops?”

And on and on it goes…  The main argument a LAGA makes is something that either has never been proven, attempted, or is even logistically feasible.  Yet we, the audience, have to somehow find a common ground to discuss something that is real — our right to bear arms — with a slew of things that aren’t.  It quickly gets dumb.

The Majority Of The Discussion Will Likely Be Education

It’s an unfortunate fact to any gun control debate.  Your conversational buddy will likely be teaming with hip-pocket arguments like “guns in a home make the occupants three times more susceptible to gunshot wounds” or “34% of all gunowners are actually werewolves.”  The point being, the person talking likely didn’t do that research himself.  He had those out-of-context factoids fed to him by any organization with a vested interest in the subject.

Do him a favor and dismantle it with one simple question, “where’d you get that information?”

A couple quick notes on how science works.  Correlation does not mean causation.  Just because one study trumped their statistics in the right place doesn’t mean some meme is proof positive of anything.

Statistical analysis — Where were the figures taken?  Are these FBI statistics or a private study?  If it was a private study — who funded it?

Follow-through — How would you implement your idea?  ‘Make a law forbidding X, Y, Z’?  Oh, that’s crazy — that’s exactly what our legislative body does.  It makes, changes, and removes laws.  The use of an Executive Order is only supposed to happen in times of great emergency where immediate need is present.  A school shooting doesn’t constitute that, I’m sorry.  Is it tragic?  Yes.  Is it a national emergency?  No.  Go submit your complaint to your elected representative and have him or her do the job.

Chances are great that the person you’re discussing this with will probably glaze over and say something flippant and/or walk away.  That’s called a personal bias.  But in the rare opportunity you’re able to engage or discuss the merits of both gun ownership and carrying a concealed firearm… You have the opportunity to truly change someone’s opinion for the better.  Because the truth is — we’re all in this together.  The more prepared, armed, and ready people exist in the United States, the more armed criminals have to second-guess their life decisions… And that’s always a good thing.

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GH is a Marine Corps veteran of Operation Iraqi Freedom and has served as a defense contractor in Afghanistan in support of Operation Enduring Freedom. His daily concealed carry handgun…

GH is a Marine Corps veteran of Operation Iraqi Freedom and has served as a defense contractor in Afghanistan in support of Operation Enduring Freedom. His daily concealed carry handgun is a Glock 36 in a Lenwood Holsters Specter IWB or his CZ-75D PCR in an Alien Gear MOD holster.

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  • SilverState

    I posted the following response just today to a comment that we (the anti’s and the gun owners) find a middle ground. Her comment was this:
    I always believe in a middle ground approach
    We need to set limits. Restrict certain types of guns Make it a bit more difficult to be a gun owner… So that we can weed out those that should not have guns at all
    My response:
    Middle ground might be good. You’ve suggested that I (as a responsible gun owner) should be subject to limits, have restrictions placed upon my ownership of guns, and that I have more difficulty imposed upon me.
    Fair enough. Now, what limits, restrictions, and difficulties can we, or should we, impose upon you? Because, if we in fact are seeking a middle ground, you must necessarily concede a commensurate amount of freedom, liberty, time and money, in order for this to be equitable. Unfortunately, you don’t get to say that the limitations imposed on me would include you as well because non-gun owners would not feel the pain of concession.
    So, what are you willing to give up in order to achieve your vision of a peaceful society?

    This will, I’m sure, generate a chorus of crickets. I believe that those in favor of background checks should be the ones to pay for them. Since I get no benefit from the background check, why should I pay for it?

  • law-abiding-citizen

    As stated in another article, the first question you should ask to shut these people down is “Do you believe that people have a basic right to defend themselves & their family against those who wish to harm them?”
    If the answer is “Yes”, you can go from there & attempt to have a rational conversation. If the answer is “No” walk away, as they are not reasonable, so there is nothing further to discuss.
    Or, you can try to prove them wrong – punch them in the face & see if they try to defend their self.

    • John Samuel Wilson

      Start swinging and just see how wedded they are to the abolition of self defense.

  • Sam Schooling

    I’m a concealed carrier in Nevada and I’ve had this conversation a few times I simply asked hypothetical situation they make the choice
    I’m at the mall and so is your mother wife and children someone comes in and starts shooting he shoots two people and turns the gun towards your family.
    me not being imminent danger I have a few choices ( you decide )
    1.take out my cell phone and call 911
    1. do you want me to draw my weapon and save your family and possibly others
    2. Take cover and wait for him to point the gun at me and then use my weapon to neutralize the threat
    3. Or do you want me to draw my weapon and possibly save your family and others

  • Mike Vee

    Trying to show a gun control advocate that their position is not logical and doesn’t hold up to factual data is like trying to convince a Hillary supporter that she is an unqualified liberal elitist using logic and factual data – not going to happen.

    • Renee V.

      I have to add “most of the time” you are not going to convince a gun control advocate of the logic behind … although I never give up on anyone as time may change their minds. By- New concealed carry lady.

  • John Samuel Wilson

    Even if the AG idiot isn’t engaging in logical debate, take the time do wear them out with facts, truth and logic. Point out their sophistic fallacies. Because even if you are not able to get through their thick skulls you have educated others willing to listen and armed the lazy pro-gun debaters with some meaningful ammo.

  • Doug Clark

    The only thing I would add to that discussion would be finishing with, “You should realize that the entire time we talked I have been carrying my fire arm concealed and at no time were you in any danger. In fact, you were safer because I would likely have used it to defend you had you been attacked.”

    • ABitofThought

      I would sure like to hear some of the replies to that statement of revealing that you are a concealed carry!

    • Stribros

      Where I grew up in Florida that comment would cause a lot of people to act foolishly and cause a huge headache for you when they call the cops claiming you’re threatening them with a gun.